Here’s a new thing I learned about: Slut Shaming. People get so upset of you labeling others that they give you a label for doing it. Now I have an issue with one saying slut shaming. But before I start, if you have sex with people congratulations I am not going to bother you and no you shouldn’t be put down.
The thing I have is just America in general with how sex is. Sex is and at least used to be a very intimate thing as well maybe private. And everyone constantly talking about it kind of kills the intimacy of it. Plus I don’t need nor want to know what you are into with other people when inside the room. Being a virgin is fine too and why is that more of a deal than a “slut shamer”? A virgin is simply waiting for that person they can be intimate with. If you have sex or have had sex, that’s perfectly fine too. Its a gift from God.
If you want to talk about your sex life with friends, cool, but make sure they actually are fine with it… If you or your friend don’t want to talk about it, you don’t have to talk about it. You definitely don’t have to put it all over for the world to know about.
With your sexual identity, people say “why does it matter if you’re gay or straight” and its true…. We don’t need to know, life goes on, my only request is can we please still keep the intimacy of sex in the room and not all over the media.